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Steps to take if your co-parent ignores your custody agreement

On Behalf of | Dec 29, 2023 | Child Custody

The U.S. Census Bureau reported that there are nearly 13 million custodial parents in the United States. Navigating co-parenting can be a complex and challenging process, especially when one parent does not honor the agreed-upon custody arrangement. When one parent disregards this agreement, it can cause significant stress and conflict, not only for the parents but also for the children involved.

Dealing with a co-parent who does not follow the custody agreement requires a balanced approach. It involves understanding your rights, communicating effectively and taking appropriate steps to resolve the situation.

Communicate with your co-parent

The first step is to communicate with your co-parent. Try to have a calm and constructive conversation about the importance of following the custody agreement. Sometimes, a simple discussion can resolve misunderstandings or address minor issues without further conflict.

Document the violations

If talking does not work, start documenting the violations of the custody agreement. Keep a record of dates, times and details of each incident. This documentation can be important if you need to seek further action.

Seek mediation

Consider mediation as a way to resolve the issue. Mediation involves a neutral third party who helps both parents discuss their concerns and work towards a solution. It can be a less confrontational way to address the problem and find a mutually acceptable resolution.

Review and adjust the custody agreement

Sometimes, the original custody agreement may no longer suit the family’s current situation. If this is the case, both parents can agree to review and adjust the terms of the agreement. Changes should focus on what is best for the children.

When a co-parent does not honor a custody agreement, it is important to address the issue with care and consideration. Taking these steps can ensure that the co-parenting relationship remains respectful and effective, even in challenging circumstances.